Dopplers Are Cool
Getting to hear your kid's heartbeat when he's only an inch and half long is pretty darn neat. And yes, everything went well.
Photography and commentary from a libertarian and former atheist.
Criticism from a politician - or, to be precise, the politician's designated Internet hatchet man - is a small price to pay for sharing honest insight with readers.If you're a writer, the fact that people will sometimes criticize you does not make you a hero. Criticism is a normal part of any type of production, and calling David Kinkade, the man in charge of the blog on Asa's website, an "Internet hatchet man" is silly. The blog Kinkade runs provides an alternative perspective to the ADG. Does that mean Brummett is a "newspaper hatchet man?"
A few weeks ago, David Kinkade, communications director for Hutchinson, told me that he was the one compiling this blog. But he said I could consider the blog's words tantamount to Asa's own official pronouncements."Brazen hypocrite?" ...that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. Under Brummett's definition, no one could work with anyone else. How often are our moral and political positions in perfect unison with those of others? By Brummett's way of thinking, it would be impossible to avoid being a hypocrite. Thus his definition of "hypocrite", apart from being incorrect, would render the word utterly meaningless.
You might recall that, on that basis, I wanted Hutchinson to apologize for misrepresentations of my columns on this blog. But he never did. That's fine. I'm not apologizing to him, either, for calling him a brazen hypocrite his own self.
That was because he asserted that a pro-choice position separated one from acceptable Arkansas values, then cavorted with the radically pro-choice Rudy Giuliani to try to drum up money and energy for his idling gubernatorial campaign.
At least I'm willing to tell you that those were my words, my honest sentiments, my proud certainties.
On Moharram 10th (Arabic calendar), prior to US/allied invasion to Iraq, fifty (50) Iraqi trucks entered Syria as convoys (or groups), I met some the drivers of those trucks, they got no idea about the content of their trucks.Read the rest of it.
The loads basically came from some where in Baghdad, Iraqi intelligence were escorting the loads. During their tripe, those truck drivers were stopped and asked frequently by the intelligence officers about whether or not they got any idea about the content of their loads, the divers replied “we have no idea”, then the officers would say “thank you”.
Upon their arrival to Deayr Ezoor city/ Syria, the drivers were ordered to get down, elements from Syrian intelligence got into the trucks, they took the trucks to big barracks for downloading.
After that; Iraqi drivers got their trucks back, they got $200 as a reward.
The drivers told me that it was their second time to bring such secret shipment; the first shipment was Moharram 1st.
During the recent Senate hearings on video game violence, one expert claimed that the ESRB underrated violent games. They went on to say that Pacman was 64% violent. To some, this means you shouldn't play Pacman; to others, it highlights what's wrong with Senate hearings.Pacman must be stopped. He kills ghosts (not that different from people) by consuming them whole through his mouth. Terrifying! When he is caught by ghosts, he is spun in circles until the centrifugal force causes his brain to hemorrage and kills him. Awful! Plus, given the current epidemic of childhood obesity, is it really okay to show a heroic character who eats everywhere he travels and receives bonus points for consuming delicious fruits as large as his body?
Helen Kirwan-Taylor, a 42-year-old writer, lives in Notting Hill, West London, with her businessman husband Charles and their sons Constantin, 12, and Ivan, ten. Here, she argues provocatively that modern women must not be enslaved by their children."Enslaved" sounds pretty serious. Perhaps she will argue that parents shouldn't bend to a child's every whim. That's reasonable. But no:
Invitations to attend a child's birthday party or, worse, a singalong session were met with the same refrain: 'I would love to but I just can't spare the time.'Well, perhaps Helen was doing something important...
The nanny was dispatched in my place, and almost always returned complaining that my son had been singled out for pitiful stares by the other mothers.
I confess that I was probably ogling the merchandise at Harvey Nichols or having my highlights done instead.Oh. Interesting that she finds shopping and sitting in a chair while someone highlights her hair more interesting than her kids.
To be honest, I spent much of the early years of my children's lives in a workaholic frenzy because the thought of spending time with them was more stressful than any journalistic assignment I could imagine.Egomania.
Kids are supposed to be fulfilling, life-changing, life-enhancing fun: why was my attitude towards them so different?
While all my girlfriends were dropping important careers and occupying their afternoons with cake baking, I was begging the nanny to stay on, at least until she had read my two a bedtime story. What kind of mother hates reading bedtime stories? A bad mother, that's who, and a mother who is bored rigid by her children.Emphasis mine.
My children have got used to my disappearing to the gym when they're doing their prep (how boring to learn something you never wanted to learn in the first place).Interact with my children? Take them somewhere? Egads! Are you serious? I don't have time to support them and teach them a bunch of boring crap. How would I maintain my me-time? I must have maximum ME-TIME!
They know better than to expect me to sit through a cricket match, and they've completely given up on expecting me to spend school holidays taking them to museums or enjoying the latest cinema block-boster alongside them. (I spent two hours texting friends throughout a screening of Pirates Of The Caribbean the other day).
Am I a lazy, superficial person because I don't enjoy packing up their sports kit, or making their lunch, or sitting through coffee mornings with other mothers discussing how Mr Science (I can't remember most of the teachers' names) said such and such to Little Johnny and should we all complain to the headmaster.Yeah, thinking about shoes is way more interesting than thinking about your kid's teachers. There are like so many different shoes. There are high heels, flats, wedges, kitten heels, and on and on. Endless fascination. In school there's what, maybe 7 or 8 subjects with only one teacher for each? Booooooring. Why think about your children when you could be thinking about outfits?
At this point in the conversation, my mind drifts to thoughts of my own lunch and which shoes I plan to wear with what skirt.
The other mothers tease me for my inability to know anything about school life. But since when did masterminding 20 school runs a week become an accomplishment? Getting a First at college was an accomplishment.I doubt they're teasing. Probably more like chiding disguised as teasing. The last time this woman was in college was probably something like 24 years ago! What adult still keeps his score by what he did back in school? Perhaps it's time to stop resting on those past laurels long enough to realize that you're failing in the present.
Arabella Cant, an art director with two young children, admits that she considered jumping off a bridge in the early stages of her career in motherhood. 'Bringing up children is among the most boring and exhausting things you can do,' she says.I shouldn't have to do anything for those brats. If they want a trip out of the house, they can go to my hairdresser. I don't do kid things. It's all about me me me mememememememememe.
Her solution was to avoid subjugating her own life to that of her children's. 'I'm certainly not traipsing around museums or sitting on the floor doing Lego if that's what you mean by being at home,' she explains. 'I'm loving it, but my children fit into my life and not the other way around.
Psychotherapist Kati St Clair has listened to the frustrations of scores of mothers. 'Women now feel great pressure to enjoy their children at all times,' she says. 'The truth is, a lot of it is plain tedium. It's very unlikely that a mother doesn't love her child, but it can be very dull. Still, it takes a brave woman to admit that.'To assuage one's guilt, it's best to equate normal parenting with obsessive parenting. Those who aren't neglectful are all obsessive. There is no middle ground.
All us bored mothers can take comfort from the fact that our children may yet turn out to be more balanced than those who are love-bombed from the day they are born. ...
This, of course, makes mothers like me — who love their children but refuse to cater to their every whim — feel vindicated.
Frankly, as long as you've fed them, sheltered them and told them they are loved, children will be fine.Children need no more care than the family dog. In fact, because children are smarter than dogs, you don't even need to show them any love or interest in them. You can just tell them that you love and are interested in them, and they'll understand.
Mine are — at the risk of sounding smug — well-adjusted, creative children who respect the concept of work.You can thank your nanny for that. The same nanny who acts as their mother by reading them stories, taking them places, caring for their needs, and showing interest in them. The same nanny who you ignored when she encouraged you to be more involved. The same nanny who has taken your place.
They stopped asking me to take them to the park (how tedious) years ago. But now when I try to entertain them and say: 'Why don't we get out the Monopoly board?' they simply look at me woefully and sigh: 'Don't bother, Mum, you'll just get bored.'Pathetic.
How right they are.
"It is my belief that seeking ways of recognizing and blessing faithful, monogamous same-sex relationships falls within the parameters of providing pastoral concern and care for our gay and lesbian members," wrote the Right Rev. Larry Maze, bishop of the 14,000-member Episcopal Diocese of Arkansas.More here:
Maze noted in his letter sent to clergy Wednesday that no other national or state Episcopal leaders have produced or approved official rites for the blessings of same-sex unions.
Maze's rather confused explanation about exactly what he is authorizing reflects this double-mindedness. "Neither the General Convention nor the Diocese of Arkansas has produced or approved official rites for the blessing of same-sex unions....No congregation, vestry, or priest is expected to interpret the pastoral concern and care of the Church for gay and lesbian persons in a way that includes the possibility of formal rites of blessing," the bishop stated. "However, those that do, have permission to proceed to work as a congregation to come to clarity around the issues involved when the Church blesses anything or anyone. If a couple seeks blessing in that congregation, they will join in that exploration much to the benefit of the congregation and the couple. This is a pastoral response and it is expected that each case will reflect the uniqueness of the congregation and the couple involved. It is expected that the bishop will be informed of each process, receive a report of work done, and see any liturgy that is produced before proceeding with a blessing rite."That kind of writing puts me to sleep. It reads like it was dictated in a soft and breathy NPR voice.
Vice president Dick Cheney traveled to northwestern Arkansas today to campaign for Asa Hutchinson, a former congressman and Homeland Security official who is running for governor. Cheney called Hutchinson a "first-class" public servant and praised his experience in Washington. Hutchinson said he was proud of his work in Washington and said the experience would help him as governor.What that doesn't mention is that Cheney again made the case for the War on Terror. One of my favorite things about Cheney is his tenacity in reminding people about why we are doing what we are doing. He pointed out that terrorist acts were being committed against the United States for many many years before we took any action. Our inaction led to our being perceived as weak, and terrorism escalated as a result. Now that we are acting, progress is being made. We have not been attacked again as a result of our extraordinary efforts.
Cheney also expressed support for American efforts in Iraq. He said if the nation pulled out of the war now, attacks on American interests would increase. The vice president also said the nation's enemies are "fractured" but that they are still lethal.
A 14-year-old who was sucked to the bottom of a hotel hot tub and kept under water for at least seven minutes was likely saved by air his father breathed into his mouth during the ordeal.And then there's this, contrary to our lawsuit-happy culture:
Aljuwon Pipkin, who was visiting Walt Disney World from New Jersey, became stuck at the bottom of the hot tub last Thursday at the Radisson Parkway Hotel.
Officials said a grate at the bottom of the tub apparently broke and created a strong suction that pulled the teen underwater. ...
As people jumped in to pull the teen from the bottom of the tub, Pipkin's father jumped in and began to breathe air into his son's mouth, the report said.
Pipkin's family said they do not blame the Radisson Hotel and said they believe what happened was an accident, the report said.Not only is the boy's father so awesome that he manages to save his son's life even though the son is stuck underwater for seven minutes, but the family acknowledges that accidents happen and doesn't plan to sue the hotel. Great people.
A cloned human would probably consider themselves to be an individual, a study suggests.Did they expect the twins to stand up and say, "We are Borg"? Of course a twin feels like an individual person--he is an individual person. This kind of "research" annoys me as does the idea that clones would somehow be different from other people:
Scientists drew their conclusions after interviewing identical twins about their experiences of sharing exactly the same genes with somebody else.
"But this interesting study and, although small, reveals how we should not have any prejudiced feelings about the idea of genetically identical individuals living amongst us."So if the twins had said that they didn't feel like individuals, then it would have been okay to have prejudiced feelings about genetically identical individuals?
(h) The costs of any recount shall be based on the actual costs incurred to conduct the recount, but in no instance shall the amount charged to conduct a recount exceed the rate of twenty-five cents (25Ã) per vote cast in the precincts where the recount is requested or a total of two thousand five hundred dollars ($2,500) for the entire county, whichever is less.But if you don't have over $1000, or you aren't a candidate (Who qualifies as a candidate in this vote?) you can hope that the county board cares enough about accuracy to check the results:
The county board may upon its own motion conduct a recount of the returns from any or all precincts.So I suppose we'll see. They're meeting tomorrow.
The average IQ of children with an extra X chromosome was 11 points lower than normal children. 18% of the 47, XXX girls showed some amount of reading impairment. Of these, 3% showed severe impairment. On a bright note, 3% showed above average reading performance. Likewise, 30% of these girls had a poor arithmetic performance. Of these 4.5% showed severe impairment with an equal amount of girls performing above average.Kill your child over 11 IQ points. Reprehensible.
...someone asked Beebe what he would do if a lawmaker sponsored a bill like HB 1119 from the 2005 legislative session, which would have prohibited gays and any unmarried couples from being foster parents. (It passed the House but failed in a Senate committee.)So, which is it? Does this guy have a clear position on anything?
There are differing accounts of what Beebe said exactly, whether he only promised to work to stop it before it reached his desk, or if he said he would actually veto it. But all agree he committed to trying to prevent such a measure from becoming law.
Nine days later, the Arkansas Supreme Court unanimously struck down the existing ban on gay foster parents that was instituted by the Child Welfare Review Board. Beebe’s initial reaction was cautious and moderate.
“The court has ruled on this and the agency will have to abide by that ruling,” Beebe said in a prepared statement on June 29.
However, the very next day he changed his tone and his tune, expressing support for a law to prevent gays from becoming foster parents — preferably writing it into the state constitution.
“I don’t think, given today’s society and the controversy, it would be in the best interest of the child to be” placed in a home with a gay foster parent, Beebe asserted on June 30.
I propose the creation of a new dynamic organization that gives existing businesses a greater role and voice in the state’s economic development policies. I will bring the private sector together with public policy makers and research institutions to create an environment where Arkansas can grow enterprises better than any state.Yeah, that's what business people really want: another agency.
When a rainbow formed in the sky people stopped and stared at the natural wonder.Go to the link for pictures.
But then lightning sparked across the evening panorama as two of nature's most spectacular phenomenon created an unusual alliance.
The clash of weather was seen above the affluent city of Fort Smith, in the Southern state Arkansas.I'd never thought of Fort Smith as being particularly affluent.
Another bond issue, to finance construction of the baseball stadium and also to be paid off with the extension of the 1 percent sales tax, got favorable votes from 2,410 of those participating in the election, while 2,393 people voted against it.Ridiculous. Springdale suddenly becomes a less attractive place to live.