I Don't Know What This Says...
... but it looks tasty.
Photography and commentary from a libertarian and former atheist.
Now a stay-at-home mom, Kirwin-Taylor admitted that she was bored stiff when taking her kids to birthday parties, to play dates and to school plays, and her article caused shock waves on both sides of the Atlantic.But that's not all the actual article said. There was also this:
My children have got used to my disappearing to the gym when they're doing their prep (how boring to learn something you never wanted to learn in the first place).And this:
They know better than to expect me to sit through a cricket match, and they've completely given up on expecting me to spend school holidays taking them to museums or enjoying the latest cinema block-boster alongside them. (I spent two hours texting friends throughout a screening of Pirates Of The Caribbean the other day).
They stopped asking me to take them to the park (how tedious) years ago. But now when I try to entertain them and say: 'Why don't we get out the Monopoly board?' they simply look at me woefully and sigh: 'Don't bother, Mum, you'll just get bored.'Her article wasn't about the tedium of small children's activities, it was about all activities involving children of all ages, including homework, movies, museums, board games, outings to the park, and athletic events.
How right they are.
Kirwin-Taylor is quick to respond to these negative comments. "I think a lot of women read it as I was interfering and that their lives are meaningless," she said. Kirwin-Taylor adds that she sees more mothers like herself losing the freedom to express themselves in a more child-centered world.Hmmm. The freedom to express themselves? Yes, perhaps one should be involved in meaningful activities aside from one's children. What was it that Kirwin-Taylor had in mind? From her original article:
I confess that I was probably ogling the merchandise at Harvey Nichols or having my highlights done instead.And:
At this point in the conversation, my mind drifts to thoughts of my own lunch and which shoes I plan to wear with what skirt.Ah yes, self-expression through endless shopping and beauty treatments.