Marriage Advice Column
One of my favorite bloggers, Dr. Helen, has a new advice column up at PJM. This one's on advice about whether or not men should get married, and plenty of readers have their own advice to offer. I've been married for almost six years--perhaps not very long but very happily--so for whatever its worth, here's my advice for anyone getting married:
If you have any question in your mind about marrying the person--any at all--DON'T do it. Marriage is the sort of thing a person should be absolutely, without-a-whisper-of-a-doubt sure of.
ADDED: I almost hesitate to post this lest one of the several newly married or soon-to-be married couples I know think I'm aiming my advice at them. Rest assured, that is not the case. This has been a long running topic over at Dr. Helen's blog, and I only comment on the occasion of her officially doing a column on the subject. You are all quite lovely, and when a match is right, a marriage is one of life's greatest joys.
If you have any question in your mind about marrying the person--any at all--DON'T do it. Marriage is the sort of thing a person should be absolutely, without-a-whisper-of-a-doubt sure of.
ADDED: I almost hesitate to post this lest one of the several newly married or soon-to-be married couples I know think I'm aiming my advice at them. Rest assured, that is not the case. This has been a long running topic over at Dr. Helen's blog, and I only comment on the occasion of her officially doing a column on the subject. You are all quite lovely, and when a match is right, a marriage is one of life's greatest joys.


